traits i wish to have now

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Especially in the AI era

"conscientiousness/ˌkɒnʃiˈɛnʃəsnəs/
Conscientiousness is a fundamental personality trait—one of the "Big Five"—characterized by being responsible, organized, hardworking, goal-directed, and disciplined. Conscientious individuals are thorough, reliable, and strive to do tasks well, prioritizing duty, impulse control, and long-term planning over spontaneous or disorganized behavior."

and also high agency.

"High-agency people believe they are the authors of their own lives, operating with extreme ownership to shape outcomes rather than accepting limitations. They focus on what they can control, proactively solving problems instead of complaining. Key traits include a bias for action, relentless perseverance, and the ability to find opportunities where others see barriers."

I want to reduce the time of feeling beaten up by situation and drown in my failure – to move on and get on with life.

There's much energy wasted in regret and blaming myself. I can only control my effort and try again.